Living With Love in Your Life

Special love, that which we consider romantic, is not authentic love. The reason is that if we take on another in a romantic partnership, we can easily do so under the guise that they will “complete us.” They will “make us whole.” We need them to behave in such a way as to “prove” their…

In Giving We Receive

The beauty of giving of oneself and one’s resources to those in need has been on full display during this time of a world health crisis. So many have found themselves without, having lost the comfort of knowing they can take care of their family’s basic needs and so many others have stepped up to…

Mental Health & Responsibility

Statistics in 2018 tell us that about 1 in 5 American adults suffer from some degree of mental illness. One in 25 of us is seriously mentally challenged. The question is, are we born with our mental health or are there forces at work to cause us to acquire attitudes that lead to an issue…

58- Using SMART Goals in Negotiating

SMART goals are statements that describe very Specific, Measurable objectives. They are also Attainable and Realistic, Relevant in your field. Finally, they are Timely, making sense with what the current environment warrants. Once you have done your “homework,” (& might I suggest writing your goals and preparatory notes), a conversation with your boss is directed…